It was my first interesting experience of understanding how differently younger and older people are learning. This understanding caught me when I, being 30 years old, decided to take one not required and very intensive undergraduate level English language class for beginners.
I was really eager to take the opportunity of those English classes since I was planning to go for PhD and I had zero English knowledge (my second language was German).
Actually nobody from my master program supported my decisions since those English classes in our University were “famous” as really heavily loaded and very intensive. Some people were joking that English classes were sort of the “method” of the university to make some students pay tuition (only the students with “lower average grade” needed to pay tuition), since those intensive English classes had been badly lowering average grade for lots of students. In my class most students were undergraduate freshmen and several masters’ students who as me were much older (30 +), had families and were working and studying together. The professor, who taught this class, was really unpleasant one. She did not have good social and teaching skills to help us to manage our really heavy course load. She was not clear with her explanations, had quite threatening style of teaching (what is not the case in the USA :) as well as constantly gave us tests that encompassed some materials not “covered” in the class and only those students who were lucky to have some English from their high schools were able to get “B” or “A” on the test (what a strategy to teach the beginners in English!).
Most of masters students were frustrated with the teacher and created “a group” that was making bad jokes and severely criticizing the professor. Actually there were many reasons to be not happy and to be “right”, but after getting a really low score (even if I had had studied!) from the first test, I realized that it is not a good way to be just only frustrated and angry and that I needed to do something about it. First I recognized that after 5 years of teaching and not learning anything “totally new” my mind was sort of “rusty”. It needed some time and “exercises” to get its speed :) Then I compared master students who had hard time with this class with the freshmen and I saw a big difference. Not only those freshmen (girls most of) were doing much better on the tests then we, master students, they even looked differently: they were happy and relaxed as well as seemed quite positive toward this “hard” teacher, teaching methods, and workload. They seemed quite open to any learning experience and you cannot see any shadow of fear of failure in their faces :) What a difference! I realized that to survive in this class (it means to get at least B) I need “to choose” to which group I “belong”. And I “chose to be” a younger student. It means together with all my hard work I needed to become more relaxed, enjoyable and open toward the teacher as well as my learning experience :) It is a really hard to be an “older” master student, because your mind is always stressed out since you have so many duties, since you forgot how to learn, and since you have too many opinions -“no I cannot learn that, it is too hard form me”, “no this is not for me”, “ I don’t need that”, “this teacher is just bad one” etc. as well as expectations for everything. You are not so relaxed and open anymore. I think it is what impedes learning process and is part of reason why older people learn much slower than younger ones. To be able to learn fast and good your mind needs to be really relaxed and open to learning experience. Look how children are listening. They “listen” with “all their bodies”. They just really focused and relaxed at the same moment and they don’t afraid to make any mistakes, ask any time questions and be silly.
It reminds me the situation with my son, who first time got exposed to English language when he started to go to preschool. An interesting thing happened with him. Even if he was already talking in full sentences in Lithuanian language, suddenly he started babbling as 7-12 month children do. And it was not Lithuanian babbling, it was English babbling. It could look really strange or my disastrous for outsider’s eye, but it was his right way to learn perfect English. He wasn’t thinking about if he will look silly or inappropriate, he just enjoyed them self and the practice. In a few years he started to speak perfect English, while my English is still sometimes hard to understand for people :)
To learn more efficiently, I think adults need to be not only relaxed, positive and happy, but also need to be sort of childish - means to be capable to fully immerse themselves in the learning process, be relaxed and focused at the same time, open and trustful, enjoyable and silly and as well as insistent and eager to find their best way to learn.
I do not think that adults can have the same capability to learn as children do, but may those understandings of what impedes learning as well as “body memories” of how they successfully went about learning when they were kids can improve adults' learning processes.